Avoid Heartbreak: The 3 Red Flags Every Partner Should Know

Love can blind even the wisest among us, but elders urge vigilance. There are three red flags that should never be ignored if you want to build a healthy relationship.

First, listen carefully to your friends and family. They often see warning signs before you do. If everyone around you dislikes your partner, it’s time to ask why. Their objective perspective can save you from years of pain.

Second, explosive anger is a major red flag. Occasional irritation is normal, but frequent, disproportionate outbursts signal deeper issues. This behavior tends to worsen after marriage and can lead to emotional or physical harm.

Third, lack of control over alcohol consumption is a serious predictor of relationship problems. Addiction or habitual overdrinking rarely improves after marriage and often exacerbates conflicts.

Ignoring these signs is tempting when in love, but the elders’ message is clear: pay attention and protect yourself. Seek counsel, trust your instincts, and be willing to walk away if necessary.

Recognizing and acting on these red flags is not about cynicism but wisdom. It’s about valuing your emotional health and building a foundation of safety and respect.

Sources: Mark Manson, Medium, Cornell Legacy Project, Adventure and Vow 1 2 3 4