The journey toward a healthier masculinity is one of healing, accountability, and hope. Cole’s simple yet profound aspiration—to be a decent guy—captures the essence of the change needed.
Restorative justice offers promising alternatives to punitive approaches, focusing on repairing harm and fostering accountability. Such methods reduce recidivism and promote healing for all involved.
Parents play a crucial role. Fathers who model emotional openness and engage in honest discussions about sex and feelings help boys develop balanced, healthy identities.
Education and cultural transformation are essential. Challenging toxic norms, creating safe spaces, and celebrating diverse masculinities pave the way for boys to become compassionate, responsible men.
Leading by example, embracing vulnerability, and prioritizing empathy over dominance can reshape masculinity for future generations.
Sources: Boys Behind the Mask (book content), restorative justice research, parenting studies on masculinity. 1 2 3
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