
Unlocking the Hidden Power of Space: How 'Create Space' Can Transform Your Life and Leadership
Discover the Secret Ingredient Top Leaders Use to Thrive in a Crowded World
How 'Create Space' Can Transform Your Life and Leadership
Imagine a life where every moment is claimed by something—a ping from your phone, a looming deadline, a never-ending to-do list. For most of us, this is the norm. But what if the secret to thriving isn’t doing more, but creating intentional space? Derek Draper’s acclaimed book, Create Space, is a clarion call to push back against the tide of busyness and reclaim our most precious resource: our attention.
At the heart of Draper’s message is a simple yet profound truth: We are the first generation in a thousand to need to consciously create space, rather than fill it. Our ancestors lived in a world of physical openness, but today we are crowded—mentally, emotionally, and digitally. This crowding stifles creativity, clouds decision-making, and erodes our sense of connection and meaning.
The Five Spaces That Matter
Draper identifies five essential types of space that everyone needs: space to think, reflect, learn, decide, and connect. Each of these is a building block for personal and professional growth. For example, research cited in the book shows that leaders who schedule protected time for reflection and deep work are more productive and resilient. In fact, a Harvard study found that just 15 minutes of daily reflection can boost productivity by 23%—a powerful argument for slowing down in order to speed up.
But space isn’t just about time management. It’s about psychological and emotional freedom—the ability to step back, breathe, and see the bigger picture. Draper’s coaching experience reveals that nearly all executives have a developmental need related to space, whether it’s to think more strategically, connect more authentically, or simply be present with themselves and others.
Reflection: The Engine of Growth
One of the book’s most actionable insights is the power of deliberate reflection. Draper shares stories of high-achievers who transformed their lives by adopting simple rituals—like journaling, mindful walks, or daily check-ins. These practices help us process experience, extract lessons, and make better decisions. The Reflecting Cycle—asking what happened, how we felt, what could be different, and what we’ll do next—turns every day into an opportunity for learning and growth.
Learning and Vulnerability
True learning requires humility and the courage to be a beginner again. Draper draws on neuroscience to show that our brains are 'soft-wired'—capable of change and adaptation throughout life. Embracing a growth mindset, seeking feedback, and recognizing your learning style are all keys to unlocking new skills and perspectives. In the book, readers meet professionals who overcame fear and resistance by asking for help, embracing mistakes, and celebrating progress rather than perfection.
Decisions That Move You Forward
Indecision is one of the biggest barriers to success. We make tens of thousands of decisions each day, and the mental load can lead to exhaustion and poor choices. Draper’s advice? Create space for the decisions that matter. Reduce noise, clarify your priorities, and balance intuition with analysis. The most effective leaders are those who act with confidence, knowing that mistakes are simply opportunities for further learning.
Connection: The Heart of High Performance
Perhaps the most inspiring part of Create Space is its focus on relationships. Teams that foster psychological safety—where people feel safe to share, challenge, and admit mistakes—consistently outperform others. Draper encourages leaders to model vulnerability, practice empathy, and build rituals of connection, from daily check-ins to moments of gratitude. These simple acts create a culture of trust and unleash the collective intelligence of the group.
Being: The Ultimate Space
In the final chapters, Draper reminds us that the ultimate goal is not just to do, but to be. Personal rituals—morning reflection, mindful walks, gratitude journaling—anchor us in the present and help us flourish. Balance is dynamic, not static; it requires ongoing self-awareness and adjustment. The privilege of a lifetime, as Carl Jung said, is to become who you truly are.
Conclusion: Create Space is more than a productivity manual—it’s a guide to living and leading with intention, clarity, and compassion. If you’re ready to reclaim your time, rediscover your purpose, and build deeper connections, this book is your essential companion.
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