When was the last time you did something just for you? In the whirlwind of parenting, work, and daily obligations, it’s easy to lose sight of your passions. Eve Rodsky’s Fair Play introduces the idea of ‘Unicorn Space’—a magical, non-negotiable time for creativity, learning, and personal joy. Far from being selfish, this space is essential for well-being and personal growth.
Research shows that people who make time for their interests are happier, healthier, and more resilient. Yet, cultural norms and guilt often keep us from prioritizing ourselves. Rodsky’s message is clear: you don’t need permission to be interesting. By openly discussing and scheduling Unicorn Space, families can support each other’s dreams and model the importance of self-care for their children.
The blog offers practical advice for identifying your passions, negotiating time with your partner, and overcoming the ‘permission paradox.’ Real-life examples illustrate how even small steps—like a weekly art class or early morning run—can reignite your sense of identity and purpose. By reclaiming Unicorn Space, you not only enrich your own life but inspire those around you to do the same.
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