Why Most Budgets Fail—And How 'Get Good with Money' Fixes It for Good

Discover the real reason most people give up on budgets—and the simple fixes that actually work

If you’ve ever started a budget only to abandon it a few weeks later, you’re not alone. Most people struggle with budgeting because traditional advice is too rigid, too focused on deprivation, and ignores the emotional side of money. Tiffany Aliche’s 'Get Good with Money' changes the game by teaching you to build a budget that fits your life, not the other way around.

Aliche’s first rule: your budget should be a 'Say Yes Plan.' Instead of focusing on what you can’t have, focus on what you want to say yes to—travel, security, joy. She recommends using multiple bank accounts to separate spending, bills, and savings. Automation is key: set up automatic transfers so your savings and bills are handled before you even think about spending.

Common pitfalls include underestimating expenses, forgetting about annual or irregular costs, and failing to review your progress. Aliche advises readers to track every dollar for at least one month, categorize expenses, and adjust as needed. She also encourages celebrating small wins—a paid bill, a growing savings account, or simply sticking to your plan for a week.

The emotional side of budgeting is crucial. Many people carry shame or fear around money, which can sabotage their efforts. Aliche’s compassionate approach helps readers forgive themselves for past mistakes and focus on progress. She suggests finding an accountability partner or joining a community for support.

Ultimately, budgeting isn’t about restriction—it’s about freedom. When you know where your money is going, you can make choices that align with your values and dreams. 'Get Good with Money' offers a blueprint for creating a budget that lasts, so you can finally build the life you want.