From People-Pleasing to Peace: The Journey of Setting Boundaries and Saying Goodbye

People-pleasing is a common but costly struggle, often rooted in fear of rejection and a deep longing to be accepted. The book 'Good Boundaries and Goodbyes' reveals how this pattern can be broken by embracing God’s truth and setting healthy boundaries.

Aligning our beliefs, emotions, and actions—orthodoxy, orthopathy, and orthopraxy—creates wholeness and peace. This alignment helps us live authentically, free from the need to please at the expense of our well-being.

Goodbyes, though painful, are part of God’s sovereign plan. Whether we are sent away, walk away, or part mutually, embracing goodbyes with grace allows healing and hope to flourish.

Healing involves making peace with memories and accepting outcomes we did not desire. Trusting God’s renovation process transforms brokenness into blessing, guided by His comforting presence.

Sustaining growth requires courage to set boundaries, wisdom to navigate opposition, and faith anchored in God’s promises. Boundaries are acts of love that protect relationships and foster mutual respect.

This journey from people-pleasing to peace is challenging but richly rewarding, inviting us into deeper relationship with God and others.