How to Work a Party Like a Pro: The Politician’s Secret Six-Point Checklist

Imagine attending a party with the confidence and strategy of a seasoned politician. Leil Lowndes shares a powerful six-point checklist to help you navigate social events with purpose and poise.

Who? When? What? Why? Where? How? These questions guide your preparation and actions. Who will be there? Target key contacts. When should you arrive? Early arrivals often gain the best connections. What should you bring? Business cards or notes. Why is the party held? Understanding the agenda tailors your approach. Where is the focus? Position yourself accordingly. How will you follow up? Timely, thoughtful follow-up cements relationships.

Politicians and VIPs often arrive early to meet important guests before the crowd swells. They know social events often have hidden agendas—be it networking, job hunting, or matchmaking—and tailor their conversations to these purposes.

Effective follow-up is crucial. Whether through handwritten notes, emails, or calls, reaching out soon after the event keeps you memorable and valued.

With this checklist, parties become less about anxiety and more about opportunity. You’ll leave events with new allies, friends, and possibilities.

References: Leil Lowndes, How to Talk to Anyone; Networking strategies and social psychology research 1 , 2 , 4