How to Build Unbreakable Relationships (and Why They Matter More Than Anything Else)

Discover why people—not things—are the real measure of a meaningful life

What makes life truly rich? Erwin Raphael McManus’s 'Mind Shift' argues that it’s not possessions, experiences, or accolades—it’s people. The joy of a new adventure is multiplied when shared with friends; the pain of a setback is halved when comforted by loved ones. Countless studies confirm that meaningful relationships are the greatest predictor of long-term happiness and even health.

Building strong relationships starts with presence and generosity. McManus encourages readers to invest time, attention, and encouragement in those they care about. One story tells of a manager who transformed their team’s culture simply by taking time to listen and celebrate small wins. The result was not only higher productivity, but deeper loyalty and trust.

Letting go is also part of the journey. Growth sometimes means saying goodbye to relationships that no longer align with your values or vision. This can be painful, but it creates space for new connections that support your growth.

Finally, generosity is the secret sauce. Whether it’s tipping well, remembering a birthday, or offering a word of encouragement, small acts of kindness build a legacy that outlasts any material achievement. If you want a life that truly matters, start by making people your highest priority.