We all have that nagging voice inside—the inner critic or, as Rob Moore vividly calls it, the 'inner bas-tard.' This voice feeds doubt, fear, and procrastination, often sabotaging our best intentions. But what if you could turn this adversary into an ally?
Understanding your inner bas-tard is the first step. This voice is not your enemy but a misguided protector trying to keep you safe from failure or judgment.
Rob Moore introduces self-gaming as a powerful strategy to outsmart your inner saboteur. By setting up rewards for success, penalties for failure, and public commitments that hold you accountable, you engage your brain’s natural motivation systems. This makes it easier to take action even when resistance looms large.
For example, promising friends a deadline or offering yourself a treat for completing a task creates external and internal incentives that push you forward. These techniques reduce reliance on willpower alone and build sustainable discipline.
Emotional mastery and self-compassion are also crucial. Instead of harsh self-criticism, treat yourself kindly and acknowledge progress, however small. This mindset shift fosters resilience and keeps you moving through setbacks.
This blog combines Rob Moore’s insights with psychological research to help you win your mind game.
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