How to Stop Chasing and Start Attracting: 5 Daily Habits from 'Super Attractor'

The secret to manifesting isn’t working harder—it’s aligning your energy and letting the universe do the heavy lifting. Gabrielle Bernstein’s 'Super Attractor' offers a blueprint for making this shift. Here are five daily habits that can help you stop chasing and start attracting.

1. Start with Gratitude

Begin your day by appreciating what you already have. Write down three things you’re grateful for, no matter how small. This sets a positive tone and opens you to receive more. 2

2. Practice the Choose Again Method

Whenever you catch a negative thought, pause, forgive yourself, and choose a better-feeling thought. Over time, this rewires your mental habits and attracts better experiences. 3

3. Prioritize Joy

Schedule fun, play, and relaxation into your day. Joy isn’t a luxury—it’s a spiritual tool that raises your vibration and attracts miracles. 1

4. Protect Your Desires

Share your dreams only with those who support them. Keeping your desires safe from doubt helps them grow stronger. 4

5. Invite Invisible Guidance

Ask for signs, listen to your intuition, and trust that support is always available. The more you notice guidance, the more you’ll receive.

Sample Daily Routine

• Morning: Gratitude journaling and intention setting
• Midday: Choose Again check-in
• Afternoon: Joy break—something fun or relaxing
• Evening: Reflect on signs and guidance received

By weaving these habits into your day, you’ll find that attracting what you want becomes second nature. 'Super Attractor' isn’t about magic—it’s about making alignment your new normal.