Is Monogamy Overrated? What ‘The Ethical Slut’ Reveals About Modern Love

For generations, monogamy has been the gold standard of romance. But as more people question traditional scripts, ‘The Ethical Slut’ offers a radical—and liberating—alternative. The book traces how the idea of lifelong monogamy is a relatively recent invention, and how many societies have embraced diverse forms of partnership throughout history. Today, apps and communities make it easier than ever to explore open relationships, but the social stigma remains real.

Easton and Hardy dismantle the myths that keep us trapped: that love is scarce, that jealousy is proof of devotion, and that commitment must mean exclusivity. Instead, they show that with clear communication, honesty, and a willingness to grow, it’s possible to build relationships that are both secure and expansive.

The book doesn’t claim that polyamory is for everyone. Instead, it invites each of us to ask, ‘What do I want from love?’ and to honor those answers with integrity. As the world becomes more accepting of relationship diversity, ‘The Ethical Slut’ stands as both a guide and a challenge: to live more honestly, to love more bravely, and to create new models for connection and family.

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