Mastering the Art of Collaborative Problem Solving: A Step-by-Step Guide for Parents

Collaborative Problem Solving (Plan B) is not just a method; it is an art that requires practice, patience, and empathy. This guide lays out the three critical steps to help parents engage their children in meaningful problem solving.

Step 1: Empathy—Begin by understanding your child’s concerns. Instead of assuming or lecturing, ask open-ended questions like, "What’s hard about this?" or "Can you tell me more?" Use reflective listening to show you truly hear them. This creates safety and trust, encouraging honest communication.

Step 2: Define the Problem—Share your own concerns honestly but neutrally. For example,