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The Hidden Pressures of Being a Teenage Girl: From Culture to Consent
How cultural expectations and relationship dynamics shape girls’ anxiety and what parents can do.
Zara Khan
May 5, 2022340 views
Under Pressure: Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in GirlsLisa Damour
The Triple Bind: Agreeable, Transparent, Attractive
Girls are socialized to meet conflicting demands that often lead to stress. They must please others, openly share emotions, and maintain idealized appearances.
Rumination: The Mental Trap
Dwelling on worries prolongs negative emotions and increases risk of anxiety and depression.
Empowering Boundaries in Relationships
Moving beyond 'no means no' to enthusiastic consent promotes mutual respect and safety. Teaching boundary-setting tools empowers girls.
Recognizing and Validating Desire
Ignoring girls’ sexual feelings fosters shame. Open conversations build healthier attitudes.
Parental Role in Navigating Culture and Consent
Parents can create safe spaces for dialogue, model respect, and support autonomy.
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