Unlock the Secret to Leadership Success: Tame Your Advice Monster Now!

Many leaders fall into the trap of rushing to give advice, believing that their value lies in having all the answers. Yet, this impulse often backfires, disempowering teams and stifling creativity. The Coaching Habit introduces the concept of the 'Advice Monster'—an internal voice that demands immediate solutions. Taming this monster is the first step toward becoming a more effective, curious leader.

At the heart of the book is a simple but profound shift: instead of answering quickly, ask powerful questions that invite reflection and ownership. Seven essential questions form the backbone of this approach, starting with the Kickstart Question, "What’s on your mind?" and moving through questions that deepen understanding and focus.

For example, when faced with multiple challenges, instead of jumping in, a leader asks,