Strive: 8 Steps to Find Your Awesome

Let’s begin our journey by settling into the gentle rhythm of change—a change that doesn’t demand a sprint, but rather invites you to stroll along the path of self-betterment. Imagine waking up to a new day, not with a list of impossible goals, but with a quiet promise: to make things easy, enjoyable, and, above all, exciting. This is the heart of the STRIVE philosophy—a way of living that turns self-improvement from a chore into a celebration.

Too often, we are told that greatness is the result of relentless sacrifice or superhuman discipline. But what if, instead, true transformation began with a kind word to yourself, a small act of self-care, or a single moment of gratitude? The philosophy you’re about to hear is not about perfection. It was born from the author’s own struggle with chronic illness—a time when even the simplest tasks felt overwhelming. In those moments, the realization dawned: meaningful change comes not from pushing harder, but from finding the joy in the journey.

Picture a tennis champion, not on the court, but sitting quietly with a journal, reflecting on the day’s tiny victories—a healthy breakfast, a kind word to a friend, a few deep breaths before sleep. Each of these small wins is a building block for a life well-lived. The STRIVE method teaches us that you don’t have to overhaul everything at once. Instead, focus on the little things: a glass of water in the morning, a moment of stillness, a smile at your reflection.

In this story, the spark of change is gentle, not jarring. It’s a sunrise, not a storm. When you choose to make your habits enjoyable, you’re more likely to repeat them. When you make them exciting, you look forward to each new day’s possibilities. And when you make them easy, you remove the barriers that keep you from starting at all. This is the secret: change that feels good is change that lasts.

As we move forward, keep this in mind: your journey doesn’t need to mirror anyone else’s. The STRIVE philosophy encourages you to honor your unique path, to celebrate each step, and to find meaning in progress, not perfection. Let’s continue and see how this philosophy takes root in the four pillars of your life.